A few years ago, on Halloween I discovered this wonderful form of torture and control. I stumbled onto it completely by accident and found it to be not only exciting, but apparently a sensation like no other for my slave.
It allows lots of room for creativity and color choices as well as shapes and sizes of candles. Though in the end the only really important thing is that it burns and the wax melts . . .
This is the beauty of wax play, the slow painstaking wait for the wax to melt and then tilted over the body. My favorite place is the tip of the cock. And slowly allowed to drip down. The wax wet and oh so hot, drips drip drip, or sometimes if it’s melted more than we though the first is more like pouring out. A stream of hot wax connecting with the sensitive skin, hardening and cooling on that skin. And once it hardens that only way to remove it is to peel it off.
This is the pain and the pleasure. A true domination that forces the slave to experience both in one moment.  Wax play can be very erotic, both mentally, in fantasy and as a physical use.   Candles are symbolic like that, making it possible to use them as fantasy objects for a role play that makes for great fun.  Vampires maybe or lovers who are about to reveal their true colors.  Or just an honest discussion of cock control and ways to insist you follow orders.  Also a bright pink candle with wax dripped all over your cock and really dress up and dress down a slutty sissy.
Haven’t tried it? Feeling wild? Call me and we’ll play.

And thank you to all the sissy girls in chat with me tonight and also to Ms Courtney for hanging out, it was fun. And to DA you are in my thoughts and prayers.

I somehow missed the letter “P”! So, I’m writing it now. I almost made this obvious and used penis, but instead I just did a nice little audio about your penis being MINE in, teasemania – the cock control forum.
Here in my blog I’m sure you’ve all noticed that I have a nice little alphabet theme going on. I adore doing it and it keeps me focused when writing.
But I’ve had some comments that my letters could stand for other things. Well I am more than half way through the alphabet and planning to start over at A after Z, so this post is all about me giving you the chance to voice your opinions on what the letters should stand for. I’m not promising to use every one or any one, but I would love to hear your opinions. You can choose any or all letters, and give as many suggestions as you want.

All I ask is that you COMMENT with them, don’t message me on yahoo and tell me, because quite honestly I’ll never remember and won’t know who to credit with the help.

Posting can also mean something else. In the BDSM world, posts are often used in dungeon and pain play, as well as ways to mark a slave. Posts are normally small, though can be larger at times, metal rods inserted either into the slave’s nipples or penis foreskin, normally with small holes on either end of the rod. These holes can be used to hang weights from or to attach a chain to and lead the slave around or confine them to one area.
Thought this was all just going to be about writing didn’t you? I’d never cheat you that way.

Also a huge thank you to everyone who participated in the sissy chat with me on Friday night. It was great fun!

And also for sissies, who you know I adore!  In fact my most recent audio is just special for my sissy girls.  You can listen to it at Sissyville and hear all about learning to color coordinate your outfits.  Some of you do need help with things like that so make sure to give me a call at 1-800-356-6169 if you have any questions or want special instructions.  Also don’t forget girls, tonight is Dressing Up with Danielle and Cassidy at 11pm est in the sissy chat room.  I’m thinking that tonight we might talk about the best places to get great lingerie and I just have to know if ANYONE has found sexy cotton panties.

Now, for the real S here. This goes with sissy, too. And is one of my favorite toys.  In the world of dominance, humbling and breaking a slave is one of the best ways to overcome the size and physical strength difference between a Mistress and slave.  You learn that you belong at my feet following my instructions.  Whether you are a sissy in need of guidance and training, a cuckold who knows his real place is servicing others as he can’t satisfy a woman on his own, or a man who pretends he wants to be in control but knows inside he’s just aching to be fucked in the ass, you will learn a great lesson through the use of a strap-on.

Every Mistress uses these differently, some opting for extra large sized ones while others just go with a changing variety of sizes.  Personally I like to switch from large to slightly smaller, depending on what I’m doing.  Since making you suck it in front of my friends and then beg to have it inside you is a favorite fantasy game of mine. *giggle*

You know you love it too. And I’ll be here all weekend and tonight after the chat, so come play with me.

I struggled for a bit with what to make this letter. I didn’t foresee, when I started this that I would one day come upon a letter that I knew very little about.
J seems to be that letter and so I’m at a bit of a loss, though I did, once started, realize that the art of Shinju is in fact Japanese Bondage, giving me my J.
Japanese Bondage is interesting in that, unlike other methods, it’s not necessarily used to bind the slave, but instead to remind or even decorate. It normally does not restrict movement and can be worn easily under clothing.
Karada is the rope harness that is put around the body in crisscrossing diamond patterns and used as the base for Shinju, which means simply binding the breasts or chest area.
There are of course much deeper and darker forms of Japanese bondage, those the move from the ornamental into an almost hogtying like area, and can cause not only severe pain but often bleeding or tearing.
The beauty of both kinds of Japanese bondage is that both cause the slave to tighten their own bonds. Struggling in any kind of bondage, be it the ornamental or restricting kind, will result in the rope knots tightening and becoming even more difficult to remove. For anyone who has ever used Japanese clover clamps, or had them used on you, you already know the idea behind this. The clamps have a chain attached that when pulled on tightens their grip.
Japanese bondage works the same way.
I must admit though, I far prefer the ornamental Karada and Shinju to the more restrictive. But then I do like pretty things, you know. *wink*

Oh and a quick reminder, tonight you can find Empress Danielle and I at midnight in the sissy chat room, holding our Dressing up with Danielle and Cassidy chat, for all you sissy girls, cross dressers, trans, and anyone who loves to dress up. I’ll be available after chat for calls as well. We are so sorry about last week, but we promise to make it up to you tonight.
See you there !

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