Wayne’s Coffee in Tampere was one of my favorite places to go and sit and just relax while I was traveling in Finland. The coffee is always hot and the muffins are huge. I could barely finish one on my own and had to take one back to the hotel with me in one of their pink paper bags. Pink paper bags are just another bit of what I love in there, everyone seems to love it in there. I could blend in, no one bothered me, and I could sit and listen to the noise and the silence. Sip hot sweet chi lattes and think or write.

It was there I heard two people talking about something I had never really thought about, not sexually anyway. One of them had recently met a man she found to be the most amazing exciting person and she was ready to do anything to get him into bed. Smiling I picked up my latte and then as the hot liquid touched my lips I heard her friend say. “Be careful, you don’t want to just rush into anything.”

It was said in a measured stoic voice, one of someone older and wiser who had been there and done that and wanted this girl to stop and think. The conversation becoming one of baby steps when getting into a relationship. It’s always better to look before you leap. Test the water. Weigh your options. Sex should be carefully thought out and considered.

Sex for me is never about that. It’s all or nothing, full force, jump in. Whether I’m ordering around a sissy in pantyhose or having a session of guided masturbation with a stroker hoping  to orgasm. I’m all in. If I’m going to pull out a strap on and seduce you into cock sucking or tease your prick, I’m going to do it totally and without hesitation. Whether our session is a fantasy role play where I tell you an erotic story playing it out to the end is the best part for me. Discovering just where we can go….the journey not the destination.

Because that is how I live. I either do it or I don’t.  There’s not an option where I stop, slow down and investigate what might happen if I choose wrong. I don’t worry that the wrong guy will ruin my life, or I’ll ruin him. I can’t worry about that when wrong or right I am caught up in the moment and that same guy is the best kisser ever. I want to feel everything, touch everything and so I rush headlong into life. I’ve slammed into many walls, broken many things ( hearts mostly), but I’d never want to be any different. I prefer to bleed from the scrapes when I fall, then to sit safely and never feel.  Or maybe I prefer you to bleed….

Is caution something wise people do while fools, as they say, rush in? What do you do?

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Okay so everyone knows that I’m a sucker for the sissy boys. I love dressing you girls up and talking shoes and clothes and everything else too. But do you know that I love dressing everyone up? My cuckolds know all about it, because for me, panties aren’t just for sissies. All you boys who need a little reminder about who is in charge can slip on a pair and you’ll like it too. And if you don’t like it…Guess what? I don’t care. You’ll do it anyway, because I like it and forcing you to be feminine is at least as much fun, if not more.

With sissies and cross dressers, most of the fun is getting dressed up. But for the cuckolds, it’s even more fun, because you have to do whatever I want. You owe me after all for putting up with that teeny tiny weenie for even one second. Whether it’s a role play fantasy or me teaching you how to be a good stroker, you know you need to do just what I want.

Starting next post I’ll be back to my alphabet and but I’m adding in for Halloween one review a week of a horror movie I find especially exciting and why. You’ll see just how that fits in to the phone sex mistress fantasy when I do it. Until then you’ll just have to wonder…

But I do have a fun announcement for you! Ready? Starting this Saturday I will be on the radio! Cock Radio that is and you can find me at 10 pm EST or 7 pm PST every Saturday night at Club Cassidy, otherwise known as the Cock Radio Room at community kink, where you can join me in the Dare to Dance. We’ll be pumping some great dance tunes, taking requests (you can even leave them here if you want to get a jump on everyone else) and playing music trivia and other fun games.

See you there!

A few years ago, on Halloween I discovered this wonderful form of torture and control. I stumbled onto it completely by accident and found it to be not only exciting, but apparently a sensation like no other for my slave.
It allows lots of room for creativity and color choices as well as shapes and sizes of candles. Though in the end the only really important thing is that it burns and the wax melts . . .
This is the beauty of wax play, the slow painstaking wait for the wax to melt and then tilted over the body. My favorite place is the tip of the cock. And slowly allowed to drip down. The wax wet and oh so hot, drips drip drip, or sometimes if it’s melted more than we though the first is more like pouring out. A stream of hot wax connecting with the sensitive skin, hardening and cooling on that skin. And once it hardens that only way to remove it is to peel it off.
This is the pain and the pleasure. A true domination that forces the slave to experience both in one moment.  Wax play can be very erotic, both mentally, in fantasy and as a physical use.   Candles are symbolic like that, making it possible to use them as fantasy objects for a role play that makes for great fun.  Vampires maybe or lovers who are about to reveal their true colors.  Or just an honest discussion of cock control and ways to insist you follow orders.  Also a bright pink candle with wax dripped all over your cock and really dress up and dress down a slutty sissy.
Haven’t tried it? Feeling wild? Call me and we’ll play.

And thank you to all the sissy girls in chat with me tonight and also to Ms Courtney for hanging out, it was fun. And to DA you are in my thoughts and prayers.