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W is for Wax Play.

Empress Cassidy — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 05:38:31 +0000

A few years ago, on Halloween I discovered this wonderful form of torture and control. I stumbled onto it completely by accident and found it to be not only exciting, but apparently a sensation like no other for my slave.
It allows lots of room for creativity and color choices as well as shapes and sizes of candles. Though in the end the only really important thing is that it burns and the wax melts . . .
This is the beauty of wax play, the slow painstaking wait for the wax to melt and then tilted over the body. My favorite place is the tip of the cock. And slowly allowed to drip down. The wax wet and oh so hot, drips drip drip, or sometimes if it’s melted more than we though the first is more like pouring out. A stream of hot wax connecting with the sensitive skin, hardening and cooling on that skin. And once it hardens that only way to remove it is to peel it off.
This is the pain and the pleasure. A true domination that forces the slave to experience both in one moment. Wax play can be very erotic, both mentally, in fantasy and as a physical use. Candles are symbolic like that, making it possible to use them as fantasy objects for a role play that makes for great fun. Vampires maybe or lovers who are about to reveal their true colors. Or just an honest discussion of cock control and ways to insist you follow orders. Also a bright pink candle with wax dripped all over your cock and really dress up and dress down a slutty sissy.
Haven’t tried it? Feeling wild? Call me and we’ll play.

And thank you to all the sissy girls in chat with me tonight and also to Ms Courtney for hanging out, it was fun. And to DA you are in my thoughts and prayers.

U is for Urges

Empress Cassidy — Sun, 07 Sep 2008 01:46:00 +0000

An urge is not complete in and of itself it is simply cause for what we do. It starts as a small thought, a fleeting moment, an intake of breath a quickening of the flesh and you desire something or someone.
For most the need to be dominated and controlled begins as a small thought. It doesn’t start as an all consuming need, but just an idea. The idea becomes an urge. The bridge from mere thought to action is the urging on of your mind body and soul into the unknown.
That urge swells and grows into a want, a need, a desire so strong only your Mistress’ will can deny it. And she may do just that, no matter what you think you want or need. If the urge to punish you or even bother with you isn’t there than nothing will happen. Though most likely in that case, you will think you got off scot free and then the urge will strike me and I’ll punish you severely.
That’s why this is my U. There are others many would think are more deserving of this letter, but honestly, the only other word beginning with you “U” that I could think of was urethra and that didn’t seem as interesting a topic. And the truth is, that for me urges are one of the main things drawing us all into this life.
The need to be a sissy or for forced bi or cock control, are all things that began as an urge, even the need for chastity was once a small urge and nudge in the right direction. A dominant mistress feels the urge to be in control. A slave feels the urge to be controlled. The difference here is that we CAN get a handle on ours and you most often are slaves not only to us, but to those urges.

M is for Mistress

Empress Cassidy — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 04:59:02 +0000

Mistress. It’s just a simple word, nothing more. Yet it wields a vast amount of power. It’s a sign first of respect and then of submission. There are many definitions of it online. You could look up any one of them and find a bit about humiliation or BDSM or even courtesans. In every case though it is a sign of female power.
Even the Mistress who is known simply as the other woman to a married man, is the one in control. She has the power to keep his secrets or expose them, she is the one who knows his desires and acts on them. She is the powerful one, always.
And here, your Mistresses are all in control of you. You may find us all to be very different or somewhat similar to one another depending on the situation. But we are each unique in our approach to control and we each have special characteristics and qualities that make us beautifully strong. My approach may be more sensual than others, I love to laugh and giggle and have fun and tease and torment . . . Or is it torture?
But what each of us has in common is that we have always been strong women. I am often asked how long I have been working here as if that is an indication of just how long I have been controlling men. Let me tell you now that it isn’t. Not for me and not for any of the mistresses here that I know. I fully believe a Mistress, like a slave, is born. You are naturally strong and know somewhere inside that you weren’t meant to be a docile wife, baking cookies and raising kids . . . Or if you were, then you were meant to carry your whip at night.
So, come play with us. I dare you to take a month and try out every single mistress here It’ll be an experience you NEVER forget.

A is for Absolute Power Exchange.

Empress Cassidy — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 19:14:48 +0000

All things have both a beginning and an end. They start often as one thing and turn into something else. But in the world of control and dominance, Absolute Power does not change. We define our relationship immediately. I am in control.
You are the one to be controlled.
There are various levels and types of control, but in the end, it stays the same always. You acquiesce to me.
And that’s how I like it.
After all I deserve to be in control. If a princess can’t rule what else can she do? Shop? Hmm, I like that too.
Speaking of things I like, I should introduce myself, as the new brat on the block.
I am Cassidy. Empress Cassidy to most of you. A hot little California princess.
I was born in a little town, and I mean tiny in Michigan called Climax. See my life was mapped out from the start. But I was never happy there. Oh sure, I could get all those boys and most of the men in town to do what I wanted, but it got boring fast, though I did learn how to hog tie from a boy who learned on real hogs and figured out that you can actually ride on a tractor naked without anyone suspecting, when I made one of them do it.
Fun ended there though and graduating early, I head out here to the west coast for college. I also met my sugar daddy husband who makes sure I never have to apply for a student loan or worry about where I’m going to live, since we have a great house in Malibu that I love to decorate. He also feeds my traveling fetish. Where is your favorite place? Think it’s the same as mine?
My girl friends and I play at the pool and wander in and out of stores and rock clubs in Southern California before and after classes. If you love music, you might get a special place in my heart, especially if you can guess my favorite bands.
My friends and I are the group of girls you wish would pay attention to you. Hair perfect, nails done, tan, short skirts and heels, with a smirk on our faces because we know you are looking and wishin’ and hopin’ and dreamin’….haha about us. I spend lots of time enjoying myself and ignoring the boring hubby, unless he wants to come to one of our parties.
I’m the one in control though. Always.
I have many little slaves roaming around to keep me entertained. Sissies, cross-dressers, the tease and denial boys, cuckolds, those in training, femdom guys who need to be forced and even some little bondage boys who need to be collared. I love and enjoy every single one of them and will enjoy playing with you too.
I major in creative writing with a minor in psychology, so be careful you might end up in my book of case studies I’ll write when I’m 60 years old. *giggle* But come say hello anyway, you won’t regret it.