W is for Wax Play.

Empress Cassidy — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 05:38:31 +0000

A few years ago, on Halloween I discovered this wonderful form of torture and control. I stumbled onto it completely by accident and found it to be not only exciting, but apparently a sensation like no other for my slave.
It allows lots of room for creativity and color choices as well as shapes and sizes of candles. Though in the end the only really important thing is that it burns and the wax melts . . .
This is the beauty of wax play, the slow painstaking wait for the wax to melt and then tilted over the body. My favorite place is the tip of the cock. And slowly allowed to drip down. The wax wet and oh so hot, drips drip drip, or sometimes if it’s melted more than we though the first is more like pouring out. A stream of hot wax connecting with the sensitive skin, hardening and cooling on that skin. And once it hardens that only way to remove it is to peel it off.
This is the pain and the pleasure. A true domination that forces the slave to experience both in one moment. Wax play can be very erotic, both mentally, in fantasy and as a physical use. Candles are symbolic like that, making it possible to use them as fantasy objects for a role play that makes for great fun. Vampires maybe or lovers who are about to reveal their true colors. Or just an honest discussion of cock control and ways to insist you follow orders. Also a bright pink candle with wax dripped all over your cock and really dress up and dress down a slutty sissy.
Haven’t tried it? Feeling wild? Call me and we’ll play.

And thank you to all the sissy girls in chat with me tonight and also to Ms Courtney for hanging out, it was fun. And to DA you are in my thoughts and prayers.

I is for Intense

Empress Cassidy — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 07:21:24 +0000

“Intense is BDSM politesse for very painful or humiliating.”

As a Mistress, I am very often far more sensual and less pain inflicting, though there are some who tell me my teasing can be quite painful. *giggle*
However, once in awhile I like to play with the painsluts and really have my way with them. I have a new personal favorite who likes to be the patient of a sadistic nurse, moi. You see he has lots of toys for me to use on him and that is one of the very best things about those so interested in the mental becoming physical.
We all exist on fantasy. We imagine what it would be like to feel or do something, but the pain sluts, they are the connoisseurs of reality. They step past others into the actual inflicting of pain and this, as a mistress, is always entertaining and exciting.
My newest has an affinity for one of my favorite methods. A simple candle, lighter and plastic bendy straw. It’s called dripping and it is, intense. I usually start with the candle, having them light it and wait while the wax heats and begins to melt and pool around the wick. Then they are instructed by me, to simply tip the candle, aiming the wax at whatever exposed body part I have chosen to be the inflicted upon. Usually the most tender areas. The shock of the heat of the wax can be addicting to someone who steps to edge with pain. It’s a different pain than cutting and less messy.
The plastic straw, when used, simply melts and drips it’s hot plastic onto the skin, sizzling and hardening. It must then be ripped off where it has burned itself onto the skin. More painful and difficult to remove than the wax.
And more intense.

Have a wonderful day and check out my audio page to listen to the variety I’ve recorded recently and let me know what you think and if there’s anything you’d like to hear.

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W is for Wax Play.

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