S is for Submissive and Secretary

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Hi there, I hope everyone had a great time at Ms. Viv’s Un-Birthday Party last night! It was a lot of fun for me to see everyone partying and lots of you stayed after for some chat and dancing at my Dare to Dance show!

My two choices for S actually kind of go together. Submission to a mistress, or a master should you choose, is something that is often misunderstood in society. Submissives give themselves to their Mistress, it isn’t forced, there is what is called a power exchange. The dominant is given the power to rule by the submissive. That power isn’t taken, it’s a willing choice. Many people misunderstand this and see the relationship as abuse or rape or any number of things, but it’s not like that at all. Abuse and rape are very different things and have no place in the BDSM lifestyle. They are crimes, pure and simple. But the submissive understands this and makes the choice to seek out the dom for what they need.

This often raises the question of where the true power in the relationship lies, but in any case it is a relationship. A submissive who needs his cock controlled, seeks out a mistress like those at stroke for me or tease mafia, one who wants to suck a cock but isn’t sure he can admit that will check out suck patrol and where can a wanna-be sissy go, well sissyville of course. There is also the deeper harsher side of dominance in domination hell and special dominance from a giantess as well. There are many places to seek out what you need and a submissive will find them and a Mistress to play them out with.

The movie Secretary is very much like this. A relationship develops between boss and secretary, but not just a simple sexual relationship, one like I have been talking about between submissive and master. It is shown in what is considered the “typical” fashion of male dominant female submissive, but we all know that isn’t typical at all. The gender of the players isn’t really the point of the movie, it’s the choice, and it’s the need in both to give up control and to control. While there were things about the movie, the ending for instance, that I didn’t especially like, the film itself is worth mentioning and worth a look.

So what do you think? Who has the real power?

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