Wayne’s Coffee in Tampere was one of my favorite places to go and sit and just relax while I was traveling in Finland. The coffee is always hot and the muffins are huge. I could barely finish one on my own and had to take one back to the hotel with me in one of their pink paper bags. Pink paper bags are just another bit of what I love in there, everyone seems to love it in there. I could blend in, no one bothered me, and I could sit and listen to the noise and the silence. Sip hot sweet chi lattes and think or write.

It was there I heard two people talking about something I had never really thought about, not sexually anyway. One of them had recently met a man she found to be the most amazing exciting person and she was ready to do anything to get him into bed. Smiling I picked up my latte and then as the hot liquid touched my lips I heard her friend say. “Be careful, you don’t want to just rush into anything.”

It was said in a measured stoic voice, one of someone older and wiser who had been there and done that and wanted this girl to stop and think. The conversation becoming one of baby steps when getting into a relationship. It’s always better to look before you leap. Test the water. Weigh your options. Sex should be carefully thought out and considered.

Sex for me is never about that. It’s all or nothing, full force, jump in. Whether I’m ordering around a sissy in pantyhose or having a session of guided masturbation with a stroker hoping  to orgasm. I’m all in. If I’m going to pull out a strap on and seduce you into cock sucking or tease your prick, I’m going to do it totally and without hesitation. Whether our session is a fantasy role play where I tell you an erotic story playing it out to the end is the best part for me. Discovering just where we can go….the journey not the destination.

Because that is how I live. I either do it or I don’t.  There’s not an option where I stop, slow down and investigate what might happen if I choose wrong. I don’t worry that the wrong guy will ruin my life, or I’ll ruin him. I can’t worry about that when wrong or right I am caught up in the moment and that same guy is the best kisser ever. I want to feel everything, touch everything and so I rush headlong into life. I’ve slammed into many walls, broken many things ( hearts mostly), but I’d never want to be any different. I prefer to bleed from the scrapes when I fall, then to sit safely and never feel.  Or maybe I prefer you to bleed….

Is caution something wise people do while fools, as they say, rush in? What do you do?

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