B is for BDSM

I’ve been here for only a few days now and already met so many wonderful people.

Sissies like Katie and Kimmy who need to learn just where to begin and how not to get too excited just by putting on their panties. And then there are some who have told me they have been doing it for years and talked with me about the very best places to buy the frilliest lingerie. That was fun!
I spent my first night with Empress Danielle and Rich the cuckold, trying to help him find a cock to suck. This story has more details and fun to it than you can imagine and if Empress Danielle doesn’t write telling you about it I will be sure to do so as everyone would enjoy it as much as we did, I’m sure. Let me just say that Rich is great fun and a good singer.
I also met a slave who told me he had been interested in BDSM his whole life. When you tell me you have been interested in something your whole life I am assuming that, as an intelligent slave, you know what you asking me for and what it entails and are prepared to tell me a list of toys and things you have that I can entertain myself with by using them on you. As I’m not yet able to read minds and can’t possibly know without you telling me what form of dominance you need.
He seemed lost. Every question was met with the preverbial shrug of his shoulders and bowed head, saying whatever you would like mistress.
I don’t like a slave who doesn’t fucking come prepared. Who tells me he has done something for years and then knows nothing about it. So, in an effort to not have my time wasted again, I thought I would explain to all of you just what those letters mean.
BDSM is by definition: a composite acronym for B&D (bondage & discipline); D&S (dominance & submission); and S&M (sadomasochism). Used to refer to any consensual activities or lifestyles between adults which include some or all of these things.
That’s easy to look up. Almost any online dictionary of sexual terms can tell you that, but it doesn’t really tell you anything, so I’m going to.
The term BDSM is used to cover many different practices and it’s why we don’t use the term often. As an Empress, almost everything I do, can fall under this category, so you aren’t giving me specifics when you say it. It’s like telling a lawyer “I have a legal problem.” They knew that or you wouldn’t be in their office. I know you want and need some aspect of this lifestyle, simply because you came to me. Is it erotic power exchange, you turn over your power to me and I take cockcontrol? Or maybe you need more than just me taking control. Maybe you need to be forced into it, made to submit to me. I love that. There’s also pain play, bondage, erotic fantasy play, sissification, cuckolding, all of it can be a form of BDSM.
Keep that in mind when talk to your Mistress.