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R is for Restraint.

It took me awhile longer than usual to decide just what I wanted to use for R. There are so many things and I vacillated between them for 2 days. It seems like R is one of those letters, like S that has so many varied applications. Rules, rimming, rack, role-playing, red lipstick, respect…..And of… Read More R is for Restraint.

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N is for Never Say Never

“Humiliation is the way to humility and without humility, nothing is pleasing to god”, said St. Francis of Assisi. Not that I’m particularly religious, but I like the sense that masochism can be viewed as a spiritual path, when it includes the mind rather than senseless violence against the sub’s body. But we all have… Read More N is for Never Say Never